“Ah, caliber, human caliber is human friend I know you have lot of friends but they may not have caliber. And they may not have caliber and you may have caliber but you may not have communication with your caliber. If you do not have communication with your caliber, you don’t have a friend you are lonely, you are desperate, you are angry, you are neurotic, you are psychotic, you are everything because your caliber and you do not communicate, you understand! Nobody’s going to tell you that, they say, ‘come on have a seminar with me I’ll give you everything you need,’ my folks this is not the way it is, you don’t need anybody, you need your caliber and you need communication with your caliber that’s the direct dry fact.
Nobody is your friend they are your associates, they are your acquaintances, they may have relations with you, you may have a good sexual night with somebody, you maybe supportive of somebody, you maybe married to somebody, you maybe blood related to somebody, they are all relationship but there’s only one relationship which is real everything else is just yoyo fast and that is do you have a caliber and do you communicate with your caliber, is your caliber and you are one or you are two, one and a half or one quarter. Got it, and it’s a plain fact. I can promise you heavens, see if you look that way you will see God coming in, give you an apple forget it is a joke. I can make you imagine things I can give you temporary and permanent experiences but will that solve your problem? No.
God gave you a thing called caliber, God gave you a caliber so you should have capacity, you should have capacity to develop endurance, then you should have capacity to develop endurance which will be perpetual then nobody can defeat you, then you shall never lose, otherwise it’s a losers world, ninety-eight people lose, so that one can survive and one can enjoy that’s the ratio. Ninety-eight people are losers, one survives and one enjoys, that’s why they say the world is very harsh, why it is harsh? Not that it is, world is very soft and beautiful and elegant but we do not have a communication developed between me and my caliber. When I and my caliber were not together I was not together, so, you can do something, hmm!” Yogi Bhajan